Relationships causes and solutions...

This is my first Blog and guess wat the first topic I am going to discuss is about relationship…..

Have you ever been involved in a relationship, I am sure everyone of us at some point of time in our life have atleast had a thought about relationship with the opposite sex….. The question is does it always end in marriage i.e. succeed …May be… But quite a number of cases break up due to some extraneous or not so important issues….

Every couple are not meant to be made for each other… Small quarrels here and there will happen in a relationship…. So when it happens what shud one do….. .It might be a big issue, a bomb blast in their little heart , an unforgivable insult, a question on ur self respect…anything. When it first occurred, but when you go down the line, after some one year or so you will realize that the quarrel was nothing but a small misunderstanding…. And you will feel why did we break up for such a silly little thing….How many of us have felt like that…..many…..

People should learn to forgive and sacrifice when there are in a relationship…..after all we are living in this world to share our happiness and sorrows with another person …

So wat are the causes of break up… lets analyze…..first Jealousy…. Is a Little bit of jealously good for the relationship… Some couple express irritation if their mate is blissfully unconcerned and supremely trusting in their relationship…..You are entitled to be protective of your relationship….You have “invested” in the relationship and its future, and you would be deeply hurt if suddenly everything turned soar….. Its fine to tease a little…. As long as your partner never feels their trustworthiness is really in question… On the other hand jealously can be a corrosive feeling… It undermines trust and feeds feelings of insecurity and fear.. It’s no fun….

Next on the queue will be EGO or rather shud I say “Emotionally going overdrive” I have never been quite able to understand wat exactly EGO is and why it causes so many problems….. Superiority in a relationship must be avoided at any point… partners must understand that they are to be treated equally… on the same platform.. This is the foundation of a good relationship…... To love unconditionally you will have to learn to sacrifice your self, your desires, and most importantly your ego….

Third on the list would be Expectations…..Giving unconditional love requires you to love without any expectations. It is very difficult to only love and not demand anything in return in today’s world where everyone is selfish and egotistic. But even in this world we see many examples of unconditional love, for example the love a mother gives to her child, the love between two life partners and the love bestowed upon siblings.

First of all you have to remember that you are not supposed to expect anything from the person you love. There might be situations when you don’t get in return wat you give…. In that situation you should not complain and argue… Always one shud have in their mind that Loving others and giving them everything you have will make you happy and more importantly have a smile on your face…….But more importantly you need to have a strong will power….to be able to love unconditionally without any expectations…

“Never Walk away from a True relationship, when you see some faults, Be patient and Realize that no body is perfect. It’s not PERFECTION that matters… it’s the AFFECTION…..” I had received this message via SMS few days back and felt how true this message is for a wonderful relationship… I wish every couple think like this and there are no break ups….. But if only dreams become reality….