Be a Maverick

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Wednesday, January 31, 2007

Relationship – The End Result – Guy’s Point of view

After two blogs about relationships……. Ppl have started to ask me wat are you trying to say here… (I was hoping something nice about my blog, but this is wat I get………) so here goes my attempt to explain wats the end result of broken relationship….

Since I am a guy I would be able to explain better form a guy’s point of view (although many girls will definitely see this as partiality)…….. When girls say no to you for any reason…… think from your heart whether you really like the person and want to spend the rest of your life with that person…… small “TIT for TAT” will happen in any relationship… ignore the small fights…… does the girl really care that you should not get hurt… if so wait for that person to come back to you and believe me they will eventually…… however this happens in most rare cases….. After you had it once from a girl… u cannot expect any mercy from her for sure…..

From my experience ( of seeing others… lemme be specific atleast this time ..) once a girl says no to you and you feel hurt …… stop persisting…..believe me she would have thought it over and said done for the good… she would like you to be her friend…. She will call you on friendship day and wish you….. but nothing else…. If you still persist before you know it ….. the next call will be on next years rakki day….. so better be careful… don’t persist….. once a relationship is over… its over for the good… no matter how many times you try to bundle up the old feelings and throw it out… it will always be there in your memory…. It will never be the same……

The general theory ( I know that all the girls I know are going to hate me for the rest of my life for saying this … but this is wat I feel) is – “sometimes a girl has to kiss a lot of frogs before she can find her prince and few guys will just be one of those frogs who if allowed will turn to a clingy toad (feeling for it)…….. so guys take life as it comes…. Enjoy the dating scene before you become old…… if you live in your past then you will be stuck with your own sorry company and nothing else…..

This ofcourse is not the ground rule for end of a relationship… individuals differ…. So there is every chance that there can be exceptions and I am one too.

1 Comments:

At 6:33 AM, Anonymous Sri... said...

OK here is the Girls' view:
I strongly object about the 'General Theory' you wrote...any girl will say no to a guy only if she feels insecured with him...and you decide whom to blame for this..its not like girls had to kiss a lot of frogs to find that Prince of hers...she will certainly treat even a 'clingy toad' as a Prince if she feels that secure feeling with him...and in every end of a relationship its the one who said the 'No' bears more pain than the one who heard it... It takes a lot for a girl to say no to a relationship she was dreaming to have till the end of life... Its just because a guy can love any number of girls the sameway but you will never be loved the way the girl used to love you even after a break-up... just thought of sharing... dint mean to hurt anyone's feelings!

 

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